Softball Here She Comes!

I can't believe it's softball season already! We have had spurts of sunshine and have taken full advantage. Sophie is loving softball and so excited to hit the field with her teammates! I'm just as excited to cheer her on! Go Dolphins!

Phobias

Given my background in therapy, I have consulted with colleagues and am seriously debating whether or not I should submit some potential phobias to add to the list in the DSM-IV. I mean, Tim is a walking phenomenon of phobias and seems to fascinate me on a daily basis. I am still in the process of collecting important data, but I'll share the little bit I have so far:

Drawerphobia: This is known as a fear of closing drawers completely. This act should occur fairly frequently to be considered an actual phobia. Tim is sincerely fearful of closing a drawer ALL THE WAY. His underwear drawer, t-shirt drawer, junk drawer must always protrude even the slightest bit. It's almost like he's afraid his boxers can't breathe in there. But then again, maybe he thinks he actually does close his drawers because I'm an enabler and shut them for him every morning.

Clean-dishes-phobia: This is the fear of actually emptying a dishwasher. I worry often because Tim seems to have absolutely no problem loading the dishwasher and heck, I think he actually ENJOYS running the dishwasher. But emptying it? He shakes at the thought of it. His fear seems genuine because I can count on one hand the number of times I've seen him actually empty the dishwasher. I know this because he seems to announce when he has emptied it.....like he's waiting for some sort of badge of courage.

Wheelophobia: Tim seems to have a serious fear about having more than one hand actually touching the steering wheel while driving. Driving over the summit, Berkeley hills, and any other winding road will be driven with one hand.....when observing, it's almost like he believes he will be electrocuted if both hands are ever caught on the steering wheel at the same time. 10 and 2 are NOT in his vocabulary. It's usually 5 OR 7, but NEVER both.

These are a few examples of the types of phobias I am considering submitting. After consulting with other spouses (all wives....coincidence?), they seem to observe the very same phobias in their husbands. Quite fascinating, no? I'll let you know what I find....stay tuned.

A Thousand Words

I'm not quite sure why, but this picture seems to symbolize the fact that my daughter is growing up way too fast. Who knew a towel turban could create so much heartache for me! Next thing you know, she'll be putting on make-up, wanting to highlight her hair, begging us for a car.......all of these crazy thoughts enter my head just from looking at this picture. No need to validate the fact that I'm nuts....I'm fully aware!

Happy Birthday Mama!

We wish we could be there with you to celebrate your birthday! Hope it's a great one and we can't wait to see you this weekend.....HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA! We love you!

Official

There's no doubt we have been functioning as a family of five for some time now, but I am so glad to announce that the courts have officially recognized us as a family of five!! Donna moved out last month as she is in college and hoping to gain her independence, so there was no need to go through the courts since she is an adult. We adore her and continue to keep in touch with her regularly. She will always be a part of our family.

But since Nancy is still a minor, we knew we wanted to make sure she was protected and cared for so the long process began with the courts. Finally, after several months, the judge gave her stamp of approval! We celebrated last night with a nice dinner and now I get to move forward and do even more paperwork with insurance, physicians, etc. It really is never-ending.......but gosh, it feels so good. We are feeling blessed beyond belief.

Updates

I think I would be a better blogger if I had 3-day weekends every week. For once, I am able to sit down and actually relax...we decided not to go out of town this weekend because of the crazy weather in Reno and I am feeling glad we laid low. My thoughts and updates in a nutshell:

• Nancy is learning to drive and I get to teach her...in my minivan...I understand this became my life.....but really? She's doing a good job so far and I have kept my cool.....relatively.
• Sophie started softball already...just in time for us to receive 5 inches of rain in less than a week. 
• Sophie's teacher sent out an email with ADDITIONAL optional worksheets to work on because some parents asked for more homework....who in the heck ARE these parents? What if I emailed and asked for LESS? Would she take away a few stacks? Whoever these parents are....I hate them.
• Noah was frustrated the other day and said, "Crap!" Unfortunately, I think I am the only one in the family that actually says that, so it's pretty clear who he got it from.....CRAP! 
• Tim's renovation at work is underway. So, thankfully, our schedule is now busier...because that is what we need in our lives!

Happy Birthday Uncle John!!!

So many birthdays! We wish we could be with Uncle John to help him celebrate his birthday! Noah said he would get him a tractor cake and green ice cream to match! We hope you had a fabulous birthday, Uncle John.......wishing only the very best for our favorite uncle! HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Happy Birthday Auntie Michelle!

We had a fabulous Saturday! On top of it being my sister's birthday (Happy Birthday Michelle!), we had 80 degree weather and took full advantage by spending part of the day in the city, then the afternoon golfing, and finished it off with a yummy dinner at The Old Spaghetti Factory! We also indulged in Kara's Cupcakes (using Michelle's birthday as yet another excuse to be bad!). Overall, a wonderful day and hopefully a very memorable one for my sis.

 Michelle fell in love with our Keurig coffee maker, so we decided to get her one for her big day!

 On the tee and ready to hit it down the middle!

 Jen was Michelle's chauffeur.

 Exploring Daddy's golf course.

 Noah mercilessly tackling Sophie to the ground!

 Happy birthday Auntie Michelle!

We were lucky enough to catch yet another gorgeous sunset at Tim's golf course. Such a great day!

Winnie the Pooh....or Monster

Tim thinks it's funny to run around the house and scare the kids while wearing a Winnie the Pooh pillow as a mask. Who knew Winnie had the potential to look creepy? Oh yeah, he can't see either, which makes it all the more fun to watch.

Parent-Teacher Conferences

I've held hundreds of conferences with parents, ran meetings with the PTSA, given presentations to parents about "how to be an involved, yet not an overbearing parent," but talk to me about attending my own child's conference and I get weak in the knees and start looking for the nearest can to puke in.

Today was Noah's very first parent-teacher conference (yes, even in pre-school) and I was extremely nervous. I shared this feeling with my husband who then got so annoyed with me he started to get anxious himself. We arrive just in time to have to wait (ugghh) because God forbid I am one second late to my slotted 15 minute conference. And when they say 15 minutes, they really mean it....not one second more. And if you're late....then tough cookies.

Once again, I was fretting over nothing. I was delighted to hear how well Noah is doing and was so glad someone else confirmed that he is a GENIUS. Okay, maybe the teacher didn't say that, but I most certainly walked away with that belief. I guess it's not that hard in pre-school......follow directions, clean up, listen during circle time, play nicely with others, recognize a few shapes and colors = super genius. And in this case, my little Noah! Tim and I walked away feeling very blessed knowing we have a happy and thriving son. We celebrated this evening with an ice cream cone! Great job, Noah!