I want to rant so bad and a small part of me almost had the courage to do it on Facebook. Then I realized I didn't want idiots responding with their idiotic comments (because they will be, and I'm not talking to my blog readers....you guys ROCK). Some people will never understand sports and I can't fault them for this
weakness difference.
Some people will always laugh at sports fans and find it annoying, never really feeling the need to paint their face two different colors or wear a jersey and refuse to wash it for 6 months because it brings good luck. They will never have obsessive rituals like vacuuming twenty minutes before game time convincing themselves that it will help their team play well that day. They will probably never go to church and throw in an extra prayer for their favorite player to have a good game day (or the time I prayed for myself to get out of a hideous slump). People who do not understand simply make fun of it, even though they secretly wish they could have half the passion for something the way sports fans do.
Like everything else, we seek to find connections with others. Having that common denominator with another person creates a bond that always stays true. I know my fellow Buckeyes will not wake up tomorrow and tell me they've had a change of heart and are now jumping on another bandwagon (the immediate 48 hours after a devastating loss doesn't count, where we are all seething and ready to disown our beloved school....I digress).
In addition, we sports fans tend to call out players like we know them (before we
did know them, that is). We call them by first name, last name, nickname....sometimes prefaced with a curse word if we are pissed at their performance. Some show their loyalty by wearing their jersey with pride. Sports fans KNOW their players inside and out; they know their strengths and weaknesses, statistics, and records. We remember where we were, who we were with, what we were feeling the time our team made an amazing comeback or threw away the big game.
So when a beloved, home grown athlete goes on national television for a "Cleveland, Go F-Yourself" special, I feel their pain. I'm not one of these types of fans because I have not experienced enough pain or loss, but I got a good glimpse of it last night and today when reading articles. I get what it did to these people.....and I remember coming across this picture when I was reading about it all over the internet today:
picture taken by
**Mike Cardew/Akron Beacon Journal, via Associated Press**
I mean, The LeBron James Grandmothers Fan Club? Who does that other than crazy super sports fans who LOVE their team and its respective players? Sports fans know the definition of loyal, that's all I gotta say. I came across a lot of people who explained just how this felt and I'm not about to try and re-invent the wheel, so I thought I'd just post a few thoughts from other sports fans that I read on ESPN. Here's my attempt to help non-sports fans (or non Ohioans) understand the overall feeling from last night's classless event (funny how many of these comments are from non Ohioans, many who just sympathize as sports fans in general):
- I think this is the first time in history one man managed to destroy an entire city by himself.
- To the people that lived through the The Shot, The Drive and The Fumble. None of our players would have done that to us. LeBron, get the hell out of our town.
- Nobody could be so cruel as to go on national television and sucker punch his loyal fan base of seven years, right? My second thought? That's exactly what a self-absorbed, ill-advised 25-year-old kid without any real perspective would do.
- I'm 25 years old. I'm about to re-enlist for another tour overseas with the Army. I have an idea of what matters and what doesn't. But this still hurts. Nothing stings worse than when one of your own rips your heart out. Not like this ...
Maybe I should do what's best for me and get out of the Army. Unfortunately, loyalty is driving me to do one more tour.
LeBron knows nothing of that word.
- Closest example to what LeBron did with Cleveland: Instead of proposing to your girlfriend, dumping your wife on the Jumbotron. At the Super Bowl.
- Michael Jordan would have wanted to kick Dwyane Wade's butt every spring, not play with him. This should be mentioned every day for the rest of LeBron's career. It's also the kryptonite for any "Some day we'll remember LeBron James as the best basketball player ever" argument. We will not. Jordan and Russell were the greatest players of all time. Neither of them would have made the choice that LeBron did. That should tell you something.
- It makes Tiger's fall from grace look like a DUI.
- So I'm watching LeBron treat Cleveland like my daughter treats her diaper, and I hear Jackson and Van Gundy talking about how horrible the Cleveland fans are for burning his jersey and how "this is how you handle yourself" as though they're watching something I'm not. I like both of their analysis usually, but they've never spent a month's salary on games, never put in 80 hours waiting tables, taking out trash or even been stuck in an office with the escape of sports as a way to get through it. So they wouldn't understand that many fans don't care about "witnessing" LeBron whatever the heck that is, as if Cleveland fans should be grateful they got to see him dunk a bunch of times and choke in the playoffs (written by a Boston fan).
- I've figured out the moral of the story: Stay in school.
Wade: 3 years at Marquette
Bosh: 1 year at Georgia Tech
The kid from Akron: no college
The most educated guy convinced his dumber friends to come play on his team for less money.
I'm sorry, Cleveland and the rest of the state of Ohio. Nobody deserves that....especially the best damn sports fans in the world....